June 22 - The minute we think about a twisted or broken relationship 
with another person, our emotions go on the defensive.  To avoid looking
 at the wrongs we've done another, we resentfully focus on the wrong he 
or she has done us.  With a sense of triumph, we seize upon his or her 
slightest misbehavior as the perfect excuse for minimizing or forgetting
 our own.  We have to remember that we're not the only ones plagued by 
sick emotions.  Often, we're really dealing with fellow sufferers, 
including those whose woes we've increased.
If I'm about to ask forgiveness for myself, why shouldn't I forgive the other person too?
Today I Pray - When I blame or fault-find, may my Higher Power tell me 
to look under the rug for my own feeling of guilt, which I have neatly 
swept under it.  May I recognize these behavior clues for what they 
really are.
Today I Will Remember - Resentment, inside-out, is guilt.
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